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How to use these questions
Don't fire them off like an interview. Ask one, actually listen, and ask a follow-up about their answer before moving on.
Answer your own question too. Sharing back is what turns questions into a real conversation.
Over text, one good question beats three boring ones. Send it, then put the phone down.
Fun questions to ask your crush20
- 1.What's the best thing that happened to you this week?
- 2.If you could eat only one food forever, what would it be?
- 3.What's your most useless talent?
- 4.What song have you had on repeat lately?
- 5.What's your go-to karaoke song?
- 6.If you won the lottery tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd buy?
- 7.What's the weirdest food combination you secretly love?
- 8.Which fictional character do you relate to the most?
- 9.What's your comfort movie?
- 10.Are you a morning person or a night owl?
- 11.What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?
- 12.If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
- 13.What's your hidden talent?
- 14.What would your perfect weekend look like?
- 15.What's something you're weirdly competitive about?
- 16.Cats or dogs, and you're not allowed to say both?
- 17.What's the best concert you've ever been to?
- 18.What's a hobby you'd love to pick up?
- 19.What's the funniest thing that's happened to you recently?
- 20.If your life was a movie, what would it be called?
Flirty questions to ask your crush15
- 1.What's the first thing you notice about someone?
- 2.What's your idea of a perfect first date?
- 3.Do you believe in love at first sight?
- 4.What's the most romantic thing someone has done for you?
- 5.What's your love language?
- 6.What's a small thing that instantly makes someone more attractive to you?
- 7.Have you ever had a crush on someone and never told them?
- 8.What song would you dedicate to someone you liked?
- 9.What's your best pickup line, even if it's terrible?
- 10.Would you rather go on a fancy date or a picnic in the park?
- 11.What do you think your friends would say about me?
- 12.What's the best compliment you've ever received?
- 13.If we went on a road trip, what would be on the playlist?
- 14.What's something you've always wanted to do on a date?
- 15.What's your favourite thing about yourself?
Deep questions to ask your crush15
- 1.What's something you're really proud of?
- 2.Who has had the biggest influence on your life?
- 3.What's a dream you've never told anyone?
- 4.What makes you feel most like yourself?
- 5.What's the best advice you've ever been given?
- 6.What's something you've changed your mind about recently?
- 7.What does a good friend mean to you?
- 8.What scares you about the future?
- 9.What's a memory you'd love to relive?
- 10.What do you want people to remember you for?
- 11.When do you feel the happiest?
- 12.What's one thing you'd change about the world?
- 13.What's something you're working on about yourself?
- 14.Who do you go to when things go wrong?
- 15.What are you most looking forward to this year?
Questions to ask your crush over text10
- 1.Quick: what's the last photo in your camera roll?
- 2.What's your most-used emoji?
- 3.What are you doing right now, honestly?
- 4.Rate your day out of ten. Go.
- 5.What's the last thing that made you laugh?
- 6.Would you rather: beach holiday or city break?
- 7.What's your favourite meme right now?
- 8.What's the most random thing in your fridge?
- 9.Send me a song you think I'd like.
- 10.Truth or dare?
Frequently asked questions
What should I ask my crush to keep the conversation going?
Open questions that invite a story work best, like 'What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?'. Follow up on their answer instead of jumping to a new topic.
How do I start a conversation with my crush over text?
Lead with something light and specific, like a song you think they'd like or a quick would-you-rather. It's easier to answer than 'hey, what's up?'.