Conversation guide

Questions to ask your crush

The hardest part of talking to a crush is the silence after 'hey'. These questions are easy to answer, fun to follow up and say a lot more about someone than 'how was your day'. Start light, and go deeper once the conversation is flowing.

By the PlaySpark team ·

How to use these questions

Don't fire them off like an interview. Ask one, actually listen, and ask a follow-up about their answer before moving on.

Answer your own question too. Sharing back is what turns questions into a real conversation.

Over text, one good question beats three boring ones. Send it, then put the phone down.

Fun questions to ask your crush20

  1. 1.What's the best thing that happened to you this week?
  2. 2.If you could eat only one food forever, what would it be?
  3. 3.What's your most useless talent?
  4. 4.What song have you had on repeat lately?
  5. 5.What's your go-to karaoke song?
  6. 6.If you won the lottery tomorrow, what's the first thing you'd buy?
  7. 7.What's the weirdest food combination you secretly love?
  8. 8.Which fictional character do you relate to the most?
  9. 9.What's your comfort movie?
  10. 10.Are you a morning person or a night owl?
  11. 11.What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?
  12. 12.If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
  13. 13.What's your hidden talent?
  14. 14.What would your perfect weekend look like?
  15. 15.What's something you're weirdly competitive about?
  16. 16.Cats or dogs, and you're not allowed to say both?
  17. 17.What's the best concert you've ever been to?
  18. 18.What's a hobby you'd love to pick up?
  19. 19.What's the funniest thing that's happened to you recently?
  20. 20.If your life was a movie, what would it be called?

Flirty questions to ask your crush15

  1. 1.What's the first thing you notice about someone?
  2. 2.What's your idea of a perfect first date?
  3. 3.Do you believe in love at first sight?
  4. 4.What's the most romantic thing someone has done for you?
  5. 5.What's your love language?
  6. 6.What's a small thing that instantly makes someone more attractive to you?
  7. 7.Have you ever had a crush on someone and never told them?
  8. 8.What song would you dedicate to someone you liked?
  9. 9.What's your best pickup line, even if it's terrible?
  10. 10.Would you rather go on a fancy date or a picnic in the park?
  11. 11.What do you think your friends would say about me?
  12. 12.What's the best compliment you've ever received?
  13. 13.If we went on a road trip, what would be on the playlist?
  14. 14.What's something you've always wanted to do on a date?
  15. 15.What's your favourite thing about yourself?

Deep questions to ask your crush15

  1. 1.What's something you're really proud of?
  2. 2.Who has had the biggest influence on your life?
  3. 3.What's a dream you've never told anyone?
  4. 4.What makes you feel most like yourself?
  5. 5.What's the best advice you've ever been given?
  6. 6.What's something you've changed your mind about recently?
  7. 7.What does a good friend mean to you?
  8. 8.What scares you about the future?
  9. 9.What's a memory you'd love to relive?
  10. 10.What do you want people to remember you for?
  11. 11.When do you feel the happiest?
  12. 12.What's one thing you'd change about the world?
  13. 13.What's something you're working on about yourself?
  14. 14.Who do you go to when things go wrong?
  15. 15.What are you most looking forward to this year?

Questions to ask your crush over text10

  1. 1.Quick: what's the last photo in your camera roll?
  2. 2.What's your most-used emoji?
  3. 3.What are you doing right now, honestly?
  4. 4.Rate your day out of ten. Go.
  5. 5.What's the last thing that made you laugh?
  6. 6.Would you rather: beach holiday or city break?
  7. 7.What's your favourite meme right now?
  8. 8.What's the most random thing in your fridge?
  9. 9.Send me a song you think I'd like.
  10. 10.Truth or dare?

Frequently asked questions

What should I ask my crush to keep the conversation going?

Open questions that invite a story work best, like 'What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?'. Follow up on their answer instead of jumping to a new topic.

How do I start a conversation with my crush over text?

Lead with something light and specific, like a song you think they'd like or a quick would-you-rather. It's easier to answer than 'hey, what's up?'.